Comments on: Painted nails and parental judgments http://www.mothersalwaysright.com/painted-nails-and-parental-judgments/ Mum life, body image, style Wed, 04 Feb 2015 20:43:44 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.2 By: Louise http://www.mothersalwaysright.com/painted-nails-and-parental-judgments/#comment-19118 Thu, 04 Jul 2013 17:25:15 +0000 http://www.mothersalwaysright.com/?p=4604#comment-19118 Molls!!!!! ALL little girls AND boys like to wear nail polish ! And I’m sure at one time or another (auntie) Helen painted your nails as she did mine when we were Freyas age 🙂 and I mention boys, as your cousin (not my son) was partial to a tint of colour on his nails 😉

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By: Louise http://www.mothersalwaysright.com/painted-nails-and-parental-judgments/#comment-19119 Thu, 04 Jul 2013 17:25:15 +0000 http://www.mothersalwaysright.com/?p=4604#comment-19119 Molls!!!!! ALL little girls AND boys like to wear nail polish ! And I’m sure at one time or another (auntie) Helen painted your nails as she did mine when we were Freyas age 🙂 and I mention boys, as your cousin (not my son) was partial to a tint of colour on his nails 😉

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By: Kate http://www.mothersalwaysright.com/painted-nails-and-parental-judgments/#comment-19114 Thu, 04 Jul 2013 12:55:36 +0000 http://www.mothersalwaysright.com/?p=4604#comment-19114 I have to say that I cast judgment as a non-parent on things like this, even as a parent actually. Until I took little man to a playgroup one day, it wasn’t until we got there and I sat down and looked at him that I realised that he had bright pink blusher on both cheeks and foundation too!! I guess I’d been so busy trying to shove us all (including a new born baby in my defence) out of the door I didn’t even see what he’d done! It was at that moment I realised the error of my ways….or my judgments!

As for painted nails, Lil Miss has always been a nightmare when it comes to cutting them. Apparently it hurts, but as soon as she was old enough to bargain with…around two… the cutting amazingly didn’t hurt if it came with the magic promise of painted nails!!! Otherwise we’d be in for hour long tantrums or me leaving her nails because I didn’t want to face the battle. Her nails threaten growing into her skin, she’d scratch herself & her brother & I’d feel like a much worse mother then than if she had a tint of pink on her nails.

I bought her her own nail varnish, a few children’s ones that are barely there colour wise but they peel off and she’s already cottoned onto the fact they don’t last long, so my nail varnish it is. Last time she was sporting a deep plummy purple. Far too old for her really but I told her she could only have it because she was going to a party. I’ll remember to tuck that one out of sight next time!!

So no, you’re not a bad mother at all, and if so then there’s a huge club of us!! 😉 We have to choose our battles very very carefully. This is definitely one where the nail varnish outweighs the battle or them not having their nails cut!!

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By: Molly http://www.mothersalwaysright.com/painted-nails-and-parental-judgments/#comment-19113 Thu, 04 Jul 2013 11:52:54 +0000 http://www.mothersalwaysright.com/?p=4604#comment-19113 Exactly what my mum and Jane (Northern Mum) say. And considering I consider the three of you some of the wisest women I know, I reckon I’m not doing too badly!

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By: anna tims (@ageingmatron) http://www.mothersalwaysright.com/painted-nails-and-parental-judgments/#comment-19107 Thu, 04 Jul 2013 10:23:14 +0000 http://www.mothersalwaysright.com/?p=4604#comment-19107 My 10yo has an extensive stash of make up and sallies forth nails and lips painted. I’d never intended this to happen. Don’t know how it did happen. And given that the only adornments to my face are a crop of fine whiskers she certainly didn’t get it from me, but there are too many other battles to fight.

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By: TheMadHouse http://www.mothersalwaysright.com/painted-nails-and-parental-judgments/#comment-19106 Thu, 04 Jul 2013 10:14:44 +0000 http://www.mothersalwaysright.com/?p=4604#comment-19106 Children want to be like the people they love. My boys often have their toe nails painted. I remember getting the comment when I was taking them swimming aged three. Also I got the you are going to turn them gay comment, which is a whole other thing!

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By: Circus Queen http://www.mothersalwaysright.com/painted-nails-and-parental-judgments/#comment-19100 Thu, 04 Jul 2013 07:36:36 +0000 http://www.mothersalwaysright.com/?p=4604#comment-19100 I take quite a soft line on nail polish. I’d let Talitha wear it but she hasn’t asked yet. She has asked to wear my mascara though which I won’t do mainly because it’s a hygiene issue. When they’re so young, it’s nothing more than imitation. Boy or girl they all do it. Anyone who’s judging has to get a life though. There are much bigger things to get wound up about.

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By: Ghislaine Forbes http://www.mothersalwaysright.com/painted-nails-and-parental-judgments/#comment-19084 Wed, 03 Jul 2013 21:17:21 +0000 http://www.mothersalwaysright.com/?p=4604#comment-19084 Nail varnish ok but don’t let F have a black bra when she’s 10! love ma x

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By: knittymummy http://www.mothersalwaysright.com/painted-nails-and-parental-judgments/#comment-19083 Wed, 03 Jul 2013 20:53:02 +0000 http://www.mothersalwaysright.com/?p=4604#comment-19083 Both my son and daughter ask for nail polish every time I do mine. Aware of the fact I might me judged I secrete it away on their toes!

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By: Alison @ Not Another Mummy Blog http://www.mothersalwaysright.com/painted-nails-and-parental-judgments/#comment-19081 Wed, 03 Jul 2013 20:26:12 +0000 http://www.mothersalwaysright.com/?p=4604#comment-19081 Another great post, Molly. You’ve tapped into what so many mums think. I’m the same – was TOTALLY judgmental about young kids with nail varnish on, and while my 2.5 year old hasn’t worn any yet, I’m well aware that it’s only a matter of time.

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