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Blogger Bump Club Week 13 #BlogBumpClub

August 7, 2014 by Molly 22 Comments

Blogger Bump Club

This week’s #BlogBumpClub is very much the holiday edition. As I write this, I’m sitting on the verandah of our mobile home, under blue Cornish skies, planning a trip to the beach later and – quite possibly – a dip in the pool. We’re staying at Trevella Park in Crantock, near Newquay, and it’s a haven of relaxation for a pregnant woman constantly needing to dip her puffy feet in cool water.

Holiday Feet

I’ll admit, before coming away, I was a bit dubious about whether I’d be able to properly enjoy a holiday while 32 weeks pregnant. My holiday staples (cold gin and tonic or a white wine) were out, plus the thought of lumbering around with a big old bump and not sleeping properly at night kind of made me wonder if it was worth the effort.

I’m glad I ignored my doubts though, because we’re having a wonderful time. Non-alcoholic beer may not be as good as the real thing, but it’s helping to keep me happy come 6pm, when the crisps and the book come out…

It’s been brilliant to spend some quality time with the (self-proclaimed) Northern Love Machine and Frog, before things get hectic as we decorate the baby’s room and I rush to meet my work deadlines before maternity leave starts – not to mention my four year old starting school next month. We never had a “babymoon” before Frog was born, but I’m starting to see the attraction of one now. Although we’re really looking forward to our new addition to the family, it’s lovely to relax as just the three of us for a little bit longer.

Pregnant on holiday

We’ve got a couple more little trips away planned for later this month too – including a wedding in Worcestershire (I finally sorted my outfit out – choosing something to wear to a wedding when I’ll be eight months pregnant was no mean feat!).

And then it’s head down, nesting mayhem and busy times preparing for the new baby. I must admit, it’s all starting to feel rather exciting now.

Finally, a HUGE congratulations to Jenny at Edspire who has welcomed her Rainbow Baby into the world. Another #BlogBumpClub baby!

Link Up!

How’s your summer panning out so far? Have you been on holiday while pregnant? Or maybe you’re enjoying some time at home and in that mad nesting phase? Link up your latest pregnancy post to this week’s #BlogBumpClub and tell us all about it!

Don’t forget to grab the badge below to display on your own blog, so other pregnant bloggers can find us and join in too. And, if you want to catch up on more pregnancy chat then tweet using the #BlogBumpClub hashtag on Twitter – I’m @mollyjforbes over there if you want to come and say hello.

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Comments

  1. victoria says

    August 12, 2014 at 8:40 pm

    Looks wonderful! Glad you had a great time!

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  2. The Breastest News says

    August 9, 2014 at 4:10 pm

    Looks like you had a lovely time and had some nice weather too 🙂 I honestly thought you were abroad and not in the UK, brilliant.

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    • Molly says

      August 11, 2014 at 8:06 pm

      It was a fabulous holiday. I’m looking forward to writing about it properly later this week! x

      Reply
  3. Oh So Gawjess says

    August 9, 2014 at 8:04 am

    At first I though you were in the Med – that pool looks amazing! I love Cornwall

    xXx

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    • Molly says

      August 11, 2014 at 8:07 pm

      It was lovely – and the sea was beautiful too. Lots of swimming! x

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  4. Ghostwritermummy says

    August 9, 2014 at 8:03 am

    Ah so glad you’re having a lovely relaxing holiday- exactly what you need. And as I write we are on the way to the airport for our holiday too! Whoop! Look after yourself x x x

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    • Molly says

      August 11, 2014 at 8:07 pm

      Hope you have a wonderful time! xx

      Reply
  5. Melaina25 says

    August 8, 2014 at 4:07 pm

    Hope you are having a fab holiday!

    ?Transatlantic Blonde?

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    • Molly says

      August 11, 2014 at 8:07 pm

      It was amazing – thank you!

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  6. Stephanie says

    August 8, 2014 at 2:36 pm

    The pool looks absolutely beautiful! your glowing too! x

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    • Molly says

      August 11, 2014 at 8:07 pm

      Thank you – I think the slight tan helps!

      Reply
  7. Jodie Fisher says

    August 8, 2014 at 11:29 am

    I’m so pleased for Jennie!

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    • Molly says

      August 11, 2014 at 8:08 pm

      Me too, wonderful news. x

      Reply
  8. Toddler Slave says

    August 8, 2014 at 7:59 am

    Oh how lovely! Sounds like you’re having a marvellous time! So glad the weather has stated glorious for you! Enjoy the rest of it! X

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    • Molly says

      August 11, 2014 at 8:08 pm

      It was beautiful. We were so lucky with the weather. Such a wonderful week. x

      Reply
  9. Michelle says

    August 7, 2014 at 7:49 pm

    Aw that looks like a lush little holiday in the UK! 🙂

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    • Molly says

      August 11, 2014 at 8:08 pm

      It was brilliant! x

      Reply
  10. Grandma from the north says

    August 7, 2014 at 7:42 pm

    Wish I was there! Love the pic of Frog and the great sandals. And she is standing on two legs! xx

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  11. Carie says

    August 7, 2014 at 1:31 pm

    I’m definitely jealous of the pool – that looks just blissful! And you look like you’re blooming in all the wonderful ways; having a little holiday is clearly a very good idea, especially with the beer and the crisps!

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    • Molly says

      August 11, 2014 at 8:09 pm

      Hurrah for non-alcoholic beer!

      Reply
  12. @goriami says

    August 7, 2014 at 10:34 am

    Aww it looks like you’re having a fabulous time! I’m quite envious! x

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    • Molly says

      August 11, 2014 at 8:09 pm

      It was fantastic – flew by!

      Reply

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I absolutely love to see the narrative shift (albeit ever so slightly) to the intrinsic benefits of movement. The focus on intuitive movement and moving our bodies for how it makes us FEEL over how it makes us LOOK brings me huge happiness. 
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✨ We live in an area with access to lots of safe green spaces to play and walk.
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✨ We have access to the technology needed to take part in online classes over lockdown.
✨ We are non-disabled so experience no physical access issues preventing us from joining in with these activities. 
✨ Our work schedule allows us to get out together during daylight hours. 
✨ None of us lives with a mental health condition which might make getting outside / engaging in movement really hard or even impossible.
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Kids access to movement is not equal so if we really care about encouraging more children to move then, as a nation, we need to level the playing field (pun intended). 
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Dressing up fatphobia as “health concern”, or “tough love” or “helping people” is just a fluffy way of saying you don’t acknowledge the huge complexity around health, or the many factors that impact weight, or the research showing the harmful (and unhealthy) impact of weight stigma, or the evidence into the long term effectiveness of diets and intentional weight loss. 
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And essentially, those who assert that health only looks one way, and that people have a moral responsibility to prove their health via the shape of their body and not be a “drain on society”, are saying that only people with their version of a “healthy body” are worthy of respect, equality, dignity.
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Children pick up on these messages and learn from an early age that “fat = bad”, and to see some bodies as better, and more deserving of love and respect than others. This could be why we’re seeing a rising number of pre-teens with eating disorders and mental health issues associated with poor body image. 
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Yes we need to lose the fad diets. But we also need to lose the deeper prejudices and anti-fat biases that make them profitable in the first place, otherwise they’ll just continue to show up in different ways, coming in ever more aggressive and insidious ways for our kids.
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You might have missed this in the news over Christ You might have missed this in the news over Christmas. It didn’t get nearly the same amount of coverage as all the diet-related features that are everywhere right now. It was hidden away behind the before and after “amazing weight loss” stories, celeb diet plans and “o*esity causes covid” headlines. But that doesn’t make it any less shocking or heartbreaking. 
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Diet culture is coming increasingly aggressively for children, and the pandemic with the huge mental health toll it’s taken has not helped one bit. We already knew the number of pre-teens diagnosed with anorexia in the last decade had doubled, and it seems the figures are rising even higher. We need change. Fast. 
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Throwback to when I was last in a gym, back in Dec Throwback to when I was last in a gym, back in December. Seems like a good time to talk about resolutions and goals and how diet culture has muddied the waters with this stuff...
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Having a fitness or movement goal is not the same as having a weight loss goal. Diet culture always conflates fitness with weight loss, particularly at this time of year, encouraging us to move in order to “burn the fat” or “earn the food”. But it’s entirely possible (and, as research shows, more conducive to long term exercise) to move for reasons that have nothing to do with aesthetics. There’s also evidence to show it’s the fitness, not the weight, which is more important when it comes to health. 
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