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A family adventure in Cornwall – where to stay

August 18, 2013 by Molly 21 Comments

Budock Vean Hotel foreshore

A couple of weeks ago we packed our bags and headed off on a little mini-break to Cornwall. Not just any part of Cornwall though – oh no. We were on our way to a part of Cornwall that holds a special place in my heart: Falmouth.

I did my post-graduate degree down in Falmouth back in 2006 but, despite loving the place, I’ve never been back. Life, a career and a family just sort of got in the way. I’ve wanted to take the (self-proclaimed) Northern Love Machine and Frog over to Falmouth for a while now, so jumped at the chance to review a holiday near my old stamping ground.

I’ll be honest, I was a bit cautious at the idea of staying in a hotel. I’m a big camping fan and our glamping holiday near Newquay last year seemed difficult to beat. I needn’t have worried though, as the Budock Vean Hotel proved exceptionally lovely.

Budock Vean is nestled away down a winding lane, set against stunning scenery, with its own private foreshore on the Helford River. It has everything you’d expect from an up-market country club: a golf course, spa, restaurant, bar, swimming pool and acres of beautiful gardens. But while the traditional decor and tranquil setting are a big draw for couples looking for some relaxation, there are loads of reasons why it makes a great place to stay as a family.

As soon as we arrived we were made to feel incredibly welcome – the warmth of the lady at the reception shone through as she chatted to our three year old, asking her name with a smile before checking us in. Any fears I’d had about a swanky, stuffy non-child friendly hotel completely disappeared.

A couple of hours later, gin and tonic in hand, I looked over the rolling gardens as I reclined on an easy chair on the terrace while my three year old did somersaults on the lawn. Dinner arrived and I knew we would be perfectly looked after here.

Budock Vean Hotel chips

If you choose to eat at the hotel and you have kids under the age of seven, you’ll need to either eat with them early (around 5.30pm) or use the babysitting or listening device service while you eat in the main restaurant between 7pm and 9pm. We loved the food at the hotel, it was fresh, tasty and great quality and, for us, that made up for not being able to eat all together in the main restaurant in the evening.

On the first night, Frog scoffed down a three course meal of soup, chicken and chips and ice-cream, which she made pretty short work of and told me it was “delicious”. With our three year old happily fed and sleepy, we made our way back to our comfortable room overlooking the golf course and rang down for our four course meal to be brought up to us.

If you’re looking for flexibility and friendly staff then you’ll be happy at Budock Vean. Our food arrived at the door with a smile and a promise to deliver the next course soon – all whispered so as not to wake our sleeping tot. The NLM and I ate like royalty, from fresh crab starters to rich and creamy dauphinoise potatoes and succulent lamb, zingy soup and dangerously more-ish cheese and crackers, I could write two whole posts about the food alone.

The following night we all ate together as a family, on the terrace overlooking a clear sky. There wasn’t the option for the four course feast we’d devoured the night before, but the alternative made us pretty happy…

Budock Vean MusselsIn terms of activities, there’s a wealth of things to do in the area. In fact, there’s so much to see and do that I’m going to write about places to visit nearby in a separate post. That said, you don’t actually need to leave the hotel if you want to have fun.

For families with slightly older kids (aged six and above), how about a spot of kayaking? Keen to make the most of the stunning scenery, the NLM spent a couple of hours on the river with Koru Kayaking, which he thoroughly enjoyed. We waved him off and then had our own adventure with a spot of swimming in the hotel pool before a game of hide and seek in the huge gardens.

Koru Kayaking - River Helford

After a morning gliding along the river, soaking up the setting, the NLM returned refreshed and ready for an afternoon seeking out the best pasty in Falmouth.

I didn’t deny him his relaxation on the river, because I had my very own zen-like experience in the hotel spa. I can thoroughly recommend the Head in Heaven treatment for some A-list pampering; a massage and facial that will leave you positively glowing with well-being.

Frog made the most of the swimming pool again in the afternoon, something we won major parent points for. Then, before tea, we went for a walk down to the private foreshore to throw pebbles in the water. There we found some children crabbing with a line and bucket off the little jetty – that’s the kind of thing you find hugely exciting when you’re three.

Toddler smilesThis smile sums up what we thought of The Budock Vean Hotel. In my next post I’ll share some brilliant places to visit nearby.

I’m off to dream about all that food…

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The details:

A room at The Budock Vean Hotel during summer season costs from £130 per night, inclusive of a full English breakfast and four course dinner with coffee. For full rates check out The Budock Vean Hotel website.

The Frenchman’s Creek Adventure with Koru Kayaking costs £35 per person, with £7 added for wetsuit hire.

We were guests of The Budock Vean Hotel and Koru Kayaking, for the purpose of this review. 

 

 

Filed Under: ADVENTURE Tagged With: Cornwall, holidays in Cornwall, hotels in Cornwall

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Comments

  1. Anya from Older Single Mum and The Healer says

    August 19, 2013 at 8:56 am

    I love that part of the world and your holiday looks perfect. It’s always good to find out about family friendly places 🙂

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    • Molly says

      August 19, 2013 at 8:59 am

      It was absolutely lovely – we returned very well rested and F loved every second, especially some of the places we visited. Can’t wait to write about the rest of our trip now!

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  2. Laura (@Chez Mummy) says

    August 19, 2013 at 5:46 am

    I spent 4 years in Falmouth and Cornwall hold a special place in both mine and my husband’s hearts. We actually met on the broadcast journalism post-graduate course in 2001 – that makes me feel old!

    Whenever we visit we always stay in the heart of Falmouth but the Budock Vean Hotel sounds really lovely and always good to know when a hotel is suitable for young children.

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    • Molly says

      August 19, 2013 at 8:35 am

      You did the same course as me! It’s a brilliant place isn’t it? Budock Vean is just around the corner from my favourite pub in the area – the Ferryboat Inn. Love it there!

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  3. The Fool says

    August 19, 2013 at 5:26 am

    Having read that review I have to say I was pleasantly surprised at the cost. It’s hard finding hotels which are nice and also kid friendly isn’t it? I’m sure there’s a gap in the market there somewhere.

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    • Molly says

      August 19, 2013 at 8:37 am

      I know exactly what you mean. It’s a great hotel – as long as you don’t mind eating earlier with the kids, or arranging a babysitter through the hotel so you can eat in the restaurant later, then it’s a brilliant family choice. And the location is just perfect to explore the rest of the area.

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  4. helloitsgemma says

    August 18, 2013 at 10:34 pm

    sounds wonderful. especially the food.

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    • Molly says

      August 19, 2013 at 8:37 am

      It’s a foodie heaven!

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  5. Cass@frugalfamily says

    August 18, 2013 at 8:35 pm

    That looks so relaxing – it sounds like you had a great time and I’m not jealous at all x x

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    • Molly says

      August 19, 2013 at 8:39 am

      It was SO relaxing. Plus, the beds were incredibly comfy – slept brilliantly!

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  6. Alice says

    August 18, 2013 at 8:16 pm

    Those Mussels! I’m going to be dreaming of those tonight! The hotel looks absolutely glorious x

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    • Molly says

      August 19, 2013 at 8:37 am

      They rivalled any mussels I’ve ever eaten in France. Seriously delicious!

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  7. Emma says

    August 18, 2013 at 7:51 pm

    ooh how lovely. We recently had a fab holiday in Cornwall and have already promised the children we will go back. This place sounds perfect for us as we all love kayaking too!

    Crabbing is such fun and I can honestly say I had never done it before last week – yet I think it should be on all childrens bucket lists!

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    • Molly says

      August 18, 2013 at 7:52 pm

      Crabbing is SO much fun isn’t it?! I used to do it as a kid too. Glad you had a wonderful week – we love Cornwall! x

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  8. Emma @mummymummymum says

    August 18, 2013 at 7:50 pm

    Also, having just returned from a hotel with incredibly rude staff and rubbish food, Burdock Vean sounds like something from a dream 🙂

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    • Molly says

      August 18, 2013 at 7:52 pm

      It’s a really lovely place to stay – thoroughly recommend it! x

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  9. Emma @mummymummymum says

    August 18, 2013 at 7:49 pm

    Molly, that sounds wonderful….I think I need to visit one day. xxx

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  10. HELEN says

    August 18, 2013 at 7:44 pm

    it sounds absolutely blissful..I bet it was lovely to visit Falmouth again, I love it down there. x

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    • Molly says

      August 18, 2013 at 7:59 pm

      It was great to get back to the area – I also hunted down my favourite pasty from student days. It didn’t disappoint! x

      Reply

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