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An afternoon tea in London

September 30, 2015 by Molly Leave a Comment

I kicked off my first ever 24 hours baby-free in style when I went to London the week before last, with an afternoon tea at The Capital hotel in upmarket Knightsbridge. Set just round the corner from Harrods, this is a seriously swanky venue that oozes class. It felt like a million miles from my sleepy Devon village, as I walked past people rushing around dressed head to toe in shiny designer labels, carrying armfuls of shopping probably worth more than my house.

My partners for the afternoon were long time blogging pals Emma and Jane, to celebrate Jane turning 21 (cough). The sun was shining, showing the street in all its well manicured, shiny doored London beauty.

The Capital hotel is the kind of place I imagine foreign tourists would come to, to experience London like they see in the movies. It’s very Hugh Grant, “proper” English, with uniformed doormen standing on pavements that gleam cleaner than my kitchen floor. Lovely.

The afternoon tea was booked via afternoontea.co.uk, a website specialising helping people find the perfect venue for their afternoon tea, with offerings across the UK. They didn’t disappoint with The Capital, which gave us just the right amount of treat factor required for celebrating a birthday and a long-anticipated reunion between three old friends.

I should be honest here and admit that we didn’t clear our plates. The food was absolutely delicious, but with an awards ceremony to go to that evening which included a three course meal, we were well aware we may not fit into our chosen outfits for the night. My suggestion – if you want to go all-out and really go to town with this then book it on a day when you can lounge around in elasticated waisted jogging pants afterwards. Seriously.

The first course came out on dainty cake platters, with crustless sandwiches filled with egg mayonnaise and ham and mustard, along with toast topped with cucumber and tuna, toasted muffins with smoked salmon and cream cheese and tiny, melt-in-the-mouth quiches. We had a three page menu of different types of tea to choose from to accompany our food. I went with my constant tea of choice, Earl Grey. It was delicious.

The setting was a quiet room upstairs in the hotel, overlooking the street below. Tables were covered with crisp white tablecloths and adorned with pretty fresh roses. It felt like everything you’d hope an afternoon tea in London to be.

Following the savoury course, we were brought out platters of cakes, including mini bakewell tarts, icecream sandwiches, mini Victoria sponges and all sorts of other delicacies. We chatted, and chatted and chatted. Ordering bellinis to help wash down all that cake, followed by a bottle of wine. The service was quick, friendly and helpful – with our waiter offering advice about tea and wine choices.

The afternoon tea was finished with a selection of plain and fruit scones, clotted cream and jam. Since moving to Devon I’ve become a bit of a regular on the scone scene and know what I like from a good scone. It needs to be served warm, so the butter melts, with a slightly toasted, crisp outside hiding a soft, fluffy centre. These scones didn’t disappoint.

We left The Capital in high spirits, excited about the evening ahead and full to the brim with food, tea and laughter. A perfect way to celebrate with friends and kick off the night.

Our cycle back on Boris Bikes to Kensington was a bit slower than the way there though, predictably.

NEED TO KNOW: Afternoon tea at The Capital in Knightsbridge starts from £29.50 per person, booked through afternoontea.co.uk. We were guests of the hotel for the purpose of this post.

 

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Hello and welcome! I'm Molly Forbes - podcaster, presenter and blogger with a passion for positivity, confidence and body image chat. Regularly writing and vlogging about empowering female issues from a motherhood angle, I also cover lifestyle and fashion topics for like-minded mums who want to rediscover themselves after having children. Thanks for stopping by! Read More…

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The current climate of intense body shaming disguised as health concern is creating policies which actively damage the relationship children have with their bodies. There is a huge amount of evidence showing that the better kids feel about their body, the more likely they are to make choices that make their body feel good - like taking part in movement or eating in a happy, intuitive way. 
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Making health all about weight not only damages kids’ body image, making them either feel like their body is “wrong” or fear it becoming “wrong”, it also gives a free pass to the diet industry to aggressively market their products at children, under the guise of health. Ironically, encouraging kids to engage in dieting and habits which are actively bad for their health. This culture affects ALL children.
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There is a silver lining though, because we can choose to be part of the solution. We can say no to diet culture at home and challenge it when it pops up in the spaces kids should be safest.
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[Stat from @themilitantbaker’s brilliant TED Tal [Stat from @themilitantbaker’s brilliant TED Talk] 
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Poor body image and weight stigma are serious public health issues. These are complex, far reaching issues that impact us on an individual and societal level in many ways. This thread isn’t to say that each of these things alone accounts for the fact kids as young as three are feeling bad about their body, but combined, they create an environment that makes it really tough for children (and adults) to like their body just as it is, regardless of what it looks like.
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If you care about health you need to be aware that weight stigma kills and poor body image has serious health implications. Want kids to eat more nutrient dense food and move their body? Stop shaming them and teaching them their body is wrong, because research shows body hate is NOT a long term motivator for treating a body with care or respect. 
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And then realise that even when kids ARE eating more nutrient dense food and moving more this will not guarantee their body will shrink. And this doesn’t mean they are unhealthy, despite what the headlines might tell you.
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Kids’ bodies don’t need “fixing”. Society needs fixing. Give every child access to good food and safe spaces to move and play. Eradicate inequality and discrimination, challenge stigmatising language. Raise awareness in the mainstream media of what many health professionals already know: health is complex, multi-faceted and is hugely impacted by socio-economic conditions. Saying it’s all down to “personal responsibility” lets the politicians off the hook. 
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Maybe then, as a nation, we can have a fair crack at good health. Until then I’d argue it’s not about health at all, it’s about money. 
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Did you know that many of the health outcomes blam Did you know that many of the health outcomes blamed on being in a bigger body can be attributed to weight stigma and weight cycling rather than the weight itself? But despite a huge amount of evidence showing this to be the case it’s rarely reported in the mainstream media and doesn’t form the basis of health policy. 
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You know what’s also bad for health? Inequality. Again, not something informing policies that conveniently apportion blame and simplify weight as all being down to personal responsibility and “lifestyle choices”. 
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If this government really cared about the health of the nation they’d look at the impact of weight stigma and inequality and create health drives based on these things, instead of saying that putting calorie counts on food labels or telling people to go for a bike ride would make everything better. 
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I am all for people living in a healthy way, if they wish to and if they can. Eat nutrient dense food, sure! Move your body, sure! Just don’t assume this will automatically lead to weight loss, or that anyone in a bigger body isn’t already doing these things. 
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The latest focus on the weight of the nation makes me scared for how this will impact children. Will kids get put on diets and begin a lifetime of harmful weight cycling? Will it give yet another green light for bigots to go on national TV and say hugely discriminatory, offensive and uneducated things about people in bigger bodies, thereby perpetuating the weight stigma that we know is so bad for health? Probably. But who cares as long as £££ is being made and the weight loss industry is booming. 
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It’ll keep us all distracted from issues like the inexcusable number of children living in poverty and the many families in the UK struggling to access nutrient dense food.
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Look beyond the headlines and the health rhetoric, know that the shape of your body does not signify your worth as a person. And challenge any person or article telling you different.
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