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On becoming Radio Mum

January 2, 2012 by Molly 34 Comments

Everything changes tomorrow. I’ll be ducking out of the early morning nappy battles and CBeebies sessions, swapping morning mum duties for getting behind a microphone. Tomorrow, I will become: Radio Mum.

Although the new show doesn’t actually start until the 9th of January, I have a few days to get Radio Mum down to a tee. In my head, Radio Mum swans into the studio looking all sleek, with a perfectly chosen outfit, manicured nails and glossy flowing Holly Willoughby-esque mane. Radio Mum is organised, having packed the baby’s change bag the night before, right before she laid out the baby’s clothes to save the husband a job in the morning. Radio Mum makes the tea as soon as she gets home from work at 1pm, ready to devote an entire afternoon to play with the baby and be Mum Extraordinaire.

But I’m a realist.

I know 4am starts aren’t particularly pretty, even if it’s to do a job that has dream written all over it. I know it will take every ounce of non-whingeing to take on an evening of further freelance feature writing and copywriting, after being jumped on by an 18 month old and battling Mother Guilt every step of the way.

So wish me luck. And remind me to stock up on the under-eye cream and only buy non-iron clothes from now on.

 

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Comments

  1. Caroline @lunchboxworld says

    June 13, 2012 at 6:19 am

    would love to hear the whole story as to how it all came about… Or maybe you’ve done a post about it already? x

    Reply
    • Molly says

      June 13, 2012 at 6:27 am

      I’ve written about work here before – but you can find out more on the Bio page of my professional website Caroline: http://www.mollyforbes.com/?page_id=81

      A mixture of experience, luck and right place right time!

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      • Caroline @lunchboxworld says

        June 13, 2012 at 6:34 am

        Thanks for sharing! That’s a great story x

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        • Molly says

          June 13, 2012 at 7:41 am

          You’re welcome – funny how you can never really predict what’s around the corner isn’t it?!

          Reply
  2. Middle-aged Matron says

    January 4, 2012 at 1:22 pm

    I would say I’d think of you at 4am every day, but…Your fantasy super-organised Radio Mum sounds loathsome. Much prefer the sound of the real you! Good luck!

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    • mothersalwaysright says

      January 4, 2012 at 8:23 pm

      Yeah Fantasy Radio Mum is pretty annoying. Far too perfect!

      Reply
  3. northernmum says

    January 4, 2012 at 8:31 am

    Go radio mum, you will be awesome and beautifully knackered, Chris moles should be trembling. X x

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    • mothersalwaysright says

      January 4, 2012 at 8:23 pm

      “Beautifully knackered”… must learn how to get this look! x

      Reply
  4. Mum in Meltdown says

    January 3, 2012 at 9:23 pm

    Wow what a great opportunity!! I’m sure you will love it and overlook the early mornings 🙂 Good luck x

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    • mothersalwaysright says

      January 4, 2012 at 8:22 pm

      Thank you! It will be like returning to this time last year, although at least I’ll be able to keep my boobs under wraps at 4am.

      Reply
  5. iamtypecast says

    January 3, 2012 at 9:11 pm

    BREAK A LEG!!

    I’m so looking forward to hearing you online – or at least a clip of you – you’re living my life for me. But I’ve said that already 😀

    You’ll be FAB!!

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    • mothersalwaysright says

      January 4, 2012 at 8:21 pm

      No pressure then. I wasn’t nervous before, but now I know YOU’RE listening…. x

      Reply
  6. Notmyyearoff says

    January 3, 2012 at 8:50 pm

    Good luck!! Can we listen to you up Norf?

    Reply
  7. Mum2BabyInsomniac says

    January 3, 2012 at 8:45 pm

    Good Luck! xx

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  8. thebabywife says

    January 3, 2012 at 8:12 pm

    Good luck! x

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  9. Circus Queen says

    January 3, 2012 at 4:36 pm

    You haven’t been buying non-iron clothes for the past 18 months? I’m impressed. Good luck and give Mother Guilt a good kick up the arse.

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    • mothersalwaysright says

      January 3, 2012 at 8:10 pm

      I haven’t really been buying clothes, full stop! But from now on, non-iron it is!

      Reply
  10. Kate Takes 5 says

    January 3, 2012 at 9:35 am

    It’s radio. Pjs and Ugg boots sound good to me.. Best of luck – knock ’em dead!

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    • mothersalwaysright says

      January 3, 2012 at 8:10 pm

      I’m not sure I’d want to put the rest of the office through the sight of me in my PJ’s. Not pretty.

      Reply
  11. nascentnovelist says

    January 2, 2012 at 9:42 pm

    Good luck! You’ll be great.

    Being a realist is all good, but don’t forget to be excited. This job has “dream” written all over it, as you said, so bask in that glory (even if you’re doing it in non-ironed clothes).

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  12. angelsandurchinsblog says

    January 2, 2012 at 9:39 pm

    You will be brilliant, and the sacrifices will all be worth it. And I thought radio meant you didn’t have to worry about swanning in with hair all sleek and eyes all made up? Unless they’ve those sneaky webcams set up in the studio? Good luck!

    Reply
    • mothersalwaysright says

      January 2, 2012 at 9:43 pm

      You’re right. At 4am I will most definitely have “a face for radio”.

      Reply
  13. Expat Mammy says

    January 2, 2012 at 9:21 pm

    good luck hun you will be absolutely fabby

    Reply
    • mothersalwaysright says

      January 2, 2012 at 9:28 pm

      If “fabby” was used to describe ANYTHING I did, then I would be one happy lady.

      Reply
  14. Kelly says

    January 2, 2012 at 9:14 pm

    Best of luck, you will be just fine I’m sure!x

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    • mothersalwaysright says

      January 2, 2012 at 9:21 pm

      Thank you!

      Reply
  15. Mistress Mummy says

    January 2, 2012 at 9:02 pm

    4am! Jeez, wishing you all the good luck in the world. Hope you enjoy yourself

    Reply
    • mothersalwaysright says

      January 2, 2012 at 9:12 pm

      It’ll be like having a newborn again!

      Reply
  16. mummymummymum says

    January 2, 2012 at 9:02 pm

    Good luck lovely! You’ll be brilliant! xx

    Reply
    • mothersalwaysright says

      January 2, 2012 at 9:11 pm

      Thank you, here’s hoping! x

      Reply

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