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Country living and a life in Devon

January 24, 2017 by Molly 6 Comments

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I never pegged myself as the country living type. Back when I was the age my girls are now, I lived in Bristol. I grew up as a city kid, in an area called Bishopston, not far from the centre of town. I loved the city and all that came with it; the shops, cinema, bowling alleys on a weekend.

Fast-forward a good few years and, at the age of thirty, I had just moved to Devon and was about to buy my first home with my husband. Now, at the age of 33 it feels like we’ve always lived here, in this little corner of South Devon. It’s where my youngest was born and my eldest started school. It’s where we’ve made new friends and forged a completely different lifestyle from the one I imagined for myself as a hungry new journalist intent on moving to the big smoke. Turns out country living is for me, after all.

country living with Muddy Puddles

When we first viewed the house we ended up buying, I remember wandering around the village trying to get a feel for the place. We were new to the area and the only reason we’d landed at this specific spot was because a) we liked the house and b) it was an easy drive to my parents’ place in North Devon, as well as commutable for the husband’s job. But a short walk around the village told us this was the place. We walked over the road, under a bridge and down a lane which opened out onto a field. On the other side of the field was a river. It was the summer and there were some kids splashing about in the shallow stream, throwing pebbles and trying to fish out bugs with their fishing nets.

For ages, we forgot about that lane. It’s literally across the road from our house, but we were so intent on exploring other places nearby we forgot what was on our doorstep. Recently, we’ve been venturing back across the road again, exploring what’s right under our nose. 

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On Sunday, the girls donned their new coats from Muddy Puddles, and we took them out for a test drive to the field and river. We spend quite a bit of time outdoors, so having warm, waterproof jackets is a must. These ones are bright with a cosy striped lining and double fastening (zip and popper), as well as a hood and pockets. The kids have barely taken them off since Sunday.

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For us, moving to the countryside has been a hugely positive thing. Although I sometimes get frustrated living so far from London (HELLO all the good events and press meetings!), living so near so many beaches, the moors, forests and rivers is always a bit of an adventure. There are still SO many places we haven’t explored yet that are only a short drive away.

However, you can take the girl out of the city, but the city remains in the girl. Going back to Bristol last weekend was a lesson in familiarity. I lived there permanently until I was nearly 19 and then on and off in between uni semesters or gap years. Still, we’re a short drive from Exeter, which means I don’t need to travel far to get my city fix when I need it.

These girls of mine though, they’re country mice through and through…

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Thanks to Muddy Puddles for working with us on this post. For more information about how I work with brands check out my Work With Me page.

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Comments

  1. Lottie | Oyster & Pearl says

    January 31, 2017 at 2:57 pm

    Really loved seeing Bristol through your new/old eyes. I’m a Devonian in spirit as my grandma lived in Kingsbridge so I’ve spent many happy years splashing in the south hams sea!

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  2. Alice says

    January 27, 2017 at 10:07 am

    Your life in Devon sounds so wonderful. I love hearing about it and watching your vlogs! I think moving out to the country is one of the most important things you can do for your kids… even though I miss the city 😉 x

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  3. Laura says

    January 27, 2017 at 2:03 am

    Loved reading this Molly as I would loooove to move to the countryside and the only thing that is stopping me is the OH who won’t budge. We are planning to actually move closer to the city so it’s easier for his commute but deep down I just want to run to the country

    Laura x

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  4. Eleanor says

    January 26, 2017 at 9:00 pm

    Ahh…this post has my favourite recent picture of your youngest in this! I love that you explore the countryside – that’s what it’s there for, adventure!

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  5. Katie @mummydaddyme says

    January 26, 2017 at 6:28 pm

    I love this Molly and they are such beautiful photos. I am in a bit of a funny location at the moment, in that we are on the edge of a town but in quite a rural area. I do love it, but I wish I was in either one or the other- I miss city living but I don’t think deep down I want to move back to a city with kids, yet at the same time I also would prefer to live in a little countryside village too. Devon is such a beautiful part of the world and I can imagine a lovely place to raise your girls. x

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  6. Ghislaine Forbes says

    January 25, 2017 at 9:51 am

    Great photos. Put in a good word for me, I’d like one of those coats!! love ma x

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Hello and welcome! I'm Molly Forbes - podcaster, presenter and blogger with a passion for positivity, confidence and body image chat. Regularly writing and vlogging about empowering female issues from a motherhood angle, I also cover lifestyle and fashion topics for like-minded mums who want to rediscover themselves after having children. Thanks for stopping by! Read More…

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