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Let’s talk about the kitchen

September 29, 2016 by Molly 10 Comments

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Considering it’s the room we spend the most time in it’s a bit of a travesty that our kitchen is the last one we’ve touched since moving into our home over two a half years ago. At the time I don’t think we realised quite how bad it was. It’s the smallest room in the house, and the darkest, despite an interior window looking through into the light-filled open plan dining room.

I don’t want to sully this post with photos of my kitchen as it currently is. Obviously there’ll be before and after photos once the makeover is complete, but for now you’ll have to imagine a really dark and dated kitchen straight from 1993, complete with peeling plastic laminated cupboards, grubby glass-fronted doors and light-sucking ugly blue, red and yellow tiles.

We looked into the cost of ripping out our current kitchen and getting a brand new one put in, but we simply couldn’t afford the one we wanted. A new kitchen would mean a compromise and it seemed silly spending thousands of pounds on something we weren’t 100% in love with.

However, that doesn’t mean we’re happy to stick with what we’ve got. So instead, we’ve decided to do a DIY makeover job and get creative, transforming our dark, dated and dysfunctional space into something light and airy with pops of colour, plenty of greenery and – finally – some proper storage!

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CREDIT: Also Home

We’re going to be working with a leading paint company to show what you can do with a bit of creative thinking, some decent paint and a bit of hard work to transform a kitchen. So many people live with kitchens they hate, simply because they think they can’t afford the alternative. But our makeover will cost under £500 and be just as effective (OK, so we won’t have fancy new taps or carrera marble worktops, but it’ll be a whole lot better than the current kitchen situation).

Despite many long hours trawling the internet I’ve not quite been able to find the exact shade of turquoise I was hoping to paint the tiles, so we’re going for an all-white, bright and fresh base palette across the walls, cupboards and tiles. We’re going to get clever with some DIY tricks to cover the glass fronts on the cupboards, and invest in some new handles.

The fun will really begin when we turn our attention to the window (looking straight onto the wall of our neighbour’s house and letting in zero light) and an upcycled piece of driftwood I have big plans for. I want to accessorise the space with plenty of pops of colour to let it flow with the rest of the house, and we’re going to remove the glass in the interior window and create a breakfast bar area on the other side.

As with everything DIY, home renovation and family it won’t be done in a weekend. Anyone with young children will tell you these things take twice as long when kids are around. But I’m determined to finish by the end of November at the very latest. I want the busiest month of cooking – December – to be spent in a kitchen far removed from the one we currently have to live with!

Take a look at my moodboard of products below for an idea of the colours we’re going with in the new space…

kitchen-moodboard

Bebe blue patterned vase, £15, Habitat | Hanging planter, Etsy | Carrera tea for one teapot, £30, Oliver Bonas | Retro kitchen wall clock, Yellow Octopus | | Tapio ombre wine glasses, £30, Oliver Bonas | Legata pasta bowl, £8, Habitat | Gold kitchen hook rack, £39, Marquis & Dawe 

Filed Under: Interiors, STYLE Tagged With: Home, home decor, home renovations, interiors, interiors ideas, kitchen

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Comments

  1. laura redburn says

    October 1, 2016 at 11:45 am

    ooh exciting to see how this turns out! i too love the habitat stuff ????

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    • Molly says

      October 7, 2016 at 1:10 pm

      I’m excited to get it done!

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  2. Alison says

    September 30, 2016 at 1:17 pm

    Ooh can’t wait to see what you come up with! Those Oliver Bonas glasses are dreamy!

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    • Molly says

      October 7, 2016 at 1:11 pm

      Aren’t they? Those colours!

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  3. Anna International says

    September 30, 2016 at 12:57 pm

    Wow! Even without kids this sounds like quite a time consuming project…with them, well it confirms my wonderwoman suspicions about you! 😉
    My favourite makeovers are actually the ones where people have really made the best of what is there rather than entirely starting again, so I am really excited to see this! Good luck! xx

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    • Molly says

      October 7, 2016 at 1:11 pm

      Wonderwoman I am not – mad and slightly over ambitious I am!

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  4. Pamela | Life With Munchers says

    September 30, 2016 at 11:42 am

    All the love for the habitat range!! Stunning!! Excited to see the result. xx

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    • Molly says

      September 30, 2016 at 12:30 pm

      Habitat are on point with their offering for AW16 aren’t they? All the colours!

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  5. Slummy single mummy says

    September 30, 2016 at 11:20 am

    Ooh, you want to get some LSA Polka pastels stuff for your mood board! We have the wine glasses and the tiny liqueur glasses and they look ace on a white shelf. (Plus they are part of Showroom so you can earn yourself some commission too!) http://www.lsa-international.com/product/polka-wine-glass-x-4

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    • Molly says

      September 30, 2016 at 12:31 pm

      Ooh fab, will add to my list! x

      Reply

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Hello and welcome! I'm Molly Forbes - podcaster, presenter and blogger with a passion for positivity, confidence and body image chat. Regularly writing and vlogging about empowering female issues from a motherhood angle, I also cover lifestyle and fashion topics for like-minded mums who want to rediscover themselves after having children. Thanks for stopping by! Read More…

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Research shows kids who have low body image are less likely to get involved with sports and more likely to skip PE. 
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Want kids to move more? Stop teaching them that one type of body is better than another - because if their body doesn’t look like your version of a healthy / beautiful / successful body not only will they be more likely to feel shame over their body, they’ll be less likely to engage with the very behaviours you want them to do more of (or be more likely to engage with them in an UNhealthy way - compulsive exercise is dangerous).
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💕Try talking about the intrinsic benefits of exercise over the extrinsic ones (ie. how it makes you FEEL instead of how it makes you LOOK).
✨Create opportunities for movement where ALL children feel welcome. 
💕Show children diverse representation so they can see sporting heroes with a range of body types and know that movement is for EVERYbody. 
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Sharing this outfit pic with you because it’s a Sharing this outfit pic with you because it’s a crying shame only the piles of laundry got to see it, quite frankly. Finally, a pair of pre-loved jeans bought online that are true to size, consistent with the rest of the brand’s sizing and actually fit! 🎉 
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PS heads up - I’ll be doing a Q&A about body image and kids in my Stories on Friday. The Q sticker is up in my Stories now if you’d like to submit a Q! 💕 #BodyHappyKids
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Another photo of us on a walk, because it’s been Another photo of us on a walk, because it’s been our main form of entertainment this year. Anyone else? 
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I honestly now get excited about putting my boots on and being outdoors, even in the rain. I’m going to start hugging trees next and going on wild camping weekends that involve doing a poo behind a tree and making my own fire. Joke.... maybe. 
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Just another reminder that all movement is valid, exercise doesn’t need to have to be about burning calories or even tracking steps in order for it to be “worth it”. Hope everyone’s had a great weekend ❤️
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I could leave this caption here but I need to make something clear: if you think it’s great that my daughter - a thin, white, nondisabled, cisgender kid - feels good in her body but you’re not here for the self-love of any kid who doesn’t look like her.... then you’ve missed the point.
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ALL bodies are good bodies, and without this important piece of the puzzle ALL children will be at risk of doubting their body. And what happens when they doubt their body? Well... hating our body doesn’t make us treat it with love, and the same is true of kids. 
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I used to struggle to buy stuff for myself if I ha I used to struggle to buy stuff for myself if I had any spare cash - not just treats, but basics like pants and tights that fit properly. I’d tell myself I didn’t need it, didn’t deserve it, couldn’t justify the expense. There’s still that little voice (the habit of putting everyone else’s needs first and my own last dies hard it seems) but I’m leaning into exploring why it still sometimes rears its head, instead of always listening to it. 
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I’m trying to buy as much as I can from pre-loved places or small businesses these days, which is why I’m very happy to share with you some of my latest finds: a star dress from Depop (£5), earrings from @kelzojewellery by @ourtransitionallife (£12) and the comfiest tights I’ve ever owned in Raspberry Pie by @snagtights (£6.99) 💕💕💕
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