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One maternity dress: 3 ways

July 15, 2014 by Molly 7 Comments

Isabella Oliver maternity tunic

OK, I’ll admit it. I may have cankles and my thighs are far from perfect at the moment, but I’m starting to love my body a little bit. If that makes me sound like a frivolous, egotistical woman then so be it. I can’t help it. I blame the big old bump and the pregnancy hormones. I’m sure it won’t last for long.

Anyway, one of the reasons I’m feeling pretty OK about the way I look right now is very much down to what I’m putting on my body. Aside from all the creams, my maternity wardrobe is doing me some definite favours.

I know some people aren’t down with spending cash on clothes you won’t wear for longer than nine months, but as far as I’m concerned it’s money well spent. If it wasn’t for my new threads then I’m sure I’d spend much of the time at the moment mourning the loss of my waist and feeling generally bleurgh. For me, what I wear can have a huge impact on how I feel about myself. Clothes are powerful like that. 

And that’s why I agreed with probably a little too much enthusiasm to review a couple of Isabella Oliver pieces. The capped sleeve tee can be seen in my latest #BlogBumpClub post, but I’ve saved the maternity tunic dress for a post all on its own.

Before last week I didn’t own anything by Isabella Oliver, so this was a new discovery for me. Although I don’t mind spending cash on maternity clothes, I’ve always worried they were a bit pricey and not worth the extra money. After trying two pieces from the range I no longer think this. The t’shirt fits beautifully, with ruching on the front AND back, meaning it offers full on flattering comfort. I know I’ll wear it long after the baby is born. And the dress, well. It’s just so blooming versatile…

tunic dress

You can tie it at the back, for a relaxed beach look. It’s long enough to cover my bump without being indecent and the jersey fabric is cool in the heat too. I like it with my trusty Birkenstock sliders and loose white shirt worn open.

Isabella Oliver dress

On cooler days I’ve worn it with my maternity ripped skinny jeans from H&M, teamed with a pair of battered Converse hi-tops and some beads thrown on at the last minute.

Maternity tunic dress

Or, for something a bit more fancy, there’s the option to wear it with a low heel, statement necklace and tie it at the front for a cleaner silhouette.

I know this is another dress that will stay a firm favourite long after I should no longer be in maternity clothes. In the winter I’ll team it with some opaque black tights or wear it over jeans. And then next summer it’ll make another appearance in the beach wardrobe.

Isabella Oliver maternity wear, I heart you.

Filed Under: Fashion, MOTHERHOOD, Pregnancy, STYLE Tagged With: Isabella Oliver, maternity dresses, maternity wear, pregnancy clothes

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Comments

  1. Gill C (A Baby on Board) says

    July 17, 2014 at 8:43 am

    Anything that can make you feel even a tiny bit better when you’re pregnant is fine by me! Isabella Oliver clothes are lovely, aren’t they? I bought a dress and some tops last time but they are very wintery so not great in this weather (randomly I’ve got this dress on the way at the moment; love how you’ve styled it).

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    • Molly says

      July 17, 2014 at 6:02 pm

      They are very lovely – and such a great fit too. Can’t wait to see you in your dress too – it’s great for summer!

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  2. Milly says

    July 17, 2014 at 8:11 am

    Love the dress – really like the third way with the statement necklace. I’ve got one Isabelle Oliver dress too, along with the gear I’ve been donated by friends and my many pairs of stretch-waist trousers. It comes out for every celebratory occasion!

    I totally agree, it’s great to feel like you look good sometimes.

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    • Molly says

      July 17, 2014 at 6:03 pm

      It really is, and important too I reckon. Isabella Oliver is a great brand – although pricey I think the odd splurge on a piece is a worthwhile investment. Plus, loads of the clothes would work far beyond pregnancy anyway. x

      Reply
  3. Jen Walshaw says

    July 15, 2014 at 8:58 pm

    You know what, looking good and feeling good in pregnancy is hard and anyway you can is a bonus. I only have one pic of me pregnant with either of the boys

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    • Molly says

      July 15, 2014 at 9:02 pm

      I think you’re right Jen. It’s not always easy and I’ve had periods in this pregnancy where I’ve felt RUBBISH. I’m hoping my current feeling lasts through the summer! x

      Reply

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ALL children have the right to feel good about the ALL children have the right to feel good about themselves and their body - not just the ones who “look healthy”. Children are being taught at a younger and younger age that their body is a problem that needs to be fixed. 
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The current climate of intense body shaming disguised as health concern is creating policies which actively damage the relationship children have with their bodies. There is a huge amount of evidence showing that the better kids feel about their body, the more likely they are to make choices that make their body feel good - like taking part in movement or eating in a happy, intuitive way. 
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Making health all about weight not only damages kids’ body image, making them either feel like their body is “wrong” or fear it becoming “wrong”, it also gives a free pass to the diet industry to aggressively market their products at children, under the guise of health. Ironically, encouraging kids to engage in dieting and habits which are actively bad for their health. This culture affects ALL children.
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And of course this version of health, and this focus on making kids’ bodies the problem, lets the politicians off the hook. Easier to put the nation on a diet instead of investing in policies which will reduce inequality and give everyone access to the things needed to live a full and healthy life.
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There is a silver lining though, because we can choose to be part of the solution. We can say no to diet culture at home and challenge it when it pops up in the spaces kids should be safest.
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If you’re a teacher our Body Happy Kids workshop is an intro to this subject with tools for creating body happy spaces for the children in your care. Find out more and sign up via my bio. ❤️ #BodyHappyKids
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[Stat from @themilitantbaker’s brilliant TED Tal [Stat from @themilitantbaker’s brilliant TED Talk] 
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Poor body image and weight stigma are serious public health issues. These are complex, far reaching issues that impact us on an individual and societal level in many ways. This thread isn’t to say that each of these things alone accounts for the fact kids as young as three are feeling bad about their body, but combined, they create an environment that makes it really tough for children (and adults) to like their body just as it is, regardless of what it looks like.
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If you care about health you need to be aware that weight stigma kills and poor body image has serious health implications. Want kids to eat more nutrient dense food and move their body? Stop shaming them and teaching them their body is wrong, because research shows body hate is NOT a long term motivator for treating a body with care or respect. 
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And then realise that even when kids ARE eating more nutrient dense food and moving more this will not guarantee their body will shrink. And this doesn’t mean they are unhealthy, despite what the headlines might tell you.
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Kids’ bodies don’t need “fixing”. Society needs fixing. Give every child access to good food and safe spaces to move and play. Eradicate inequality and discrimination, challenge stigmatising language. Raise awareness in the mainstream media of what many health professionals already know: health is complex, multi-faceted and is hugely impacted by socio-economic conditions. Saying it’s all down to “personal responsibility” lets the politicians off the hook. 
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Maybe then, as a nation, we can have a fair crack at good health. Until then I’d argue it’s not about health at all, it’s about money. 
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In an alternate universe I’d be packing for a ho In an alternate universe I’d be packing for a holiday to Cantabria in Spain right now. Yet here we are. This summer is brought to us by Argos (paddling pool) and Monki (cozzie). FYI I’m still bikini all the way, but prefer a cozzie for when I get serious doing lengths at the pool 🏊‍♀️🏊‍♀️🏊‍♀️ #bodyhappymum
Did you know that many of the health outcomes blam Did you know that many of the health outcomes blamed on being in a bigger body can be attributed to weight stigma and weight cycling rather than the weight itself? But despite a huge amount of evidence showing this to be the case it’s rarely reported in the mainstream media and doesn’t form the basis of health policy. 
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You know what’s also bad for health? Inequality. Again, not something informing policies that conveniently apportion blame and simplify weight as all being down to personal responsibility and “lifestyle choices”. 
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If this government really cared about the health of the nation they’d look at the impact of weight stigma and inequality and create health drives based on these things, instead of saying that putting calorie counts on food labels or telling people to go for a bike ride would make everything better. 
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I am all for people living in a healthy way, if they wish to and if they can. Eat nutrient dense food, sure! Move your body, sure! Just don’t assume this will automatically lead to weight loss, or that anyone in a bigger body isn’t already doing these things. 
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The latest focus on the weight of the nation makes me scared for how this will impact children. Will kids get put on diets and begin a lifetime of harmful weight cycling? Will it give yet another green light for bigots to go on national TV and say hugely discriminatory, offensive and uneducated things about people in bigger bodies, thereby perpetuating the weight stigma that we know is so bad for health? Probably. But who cares as long as £££ is being made and the weight loss industry is booming. 
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It’ll keep us all distracted from issues like the inexcusable number of children living in poverty and the many families in the UK struggling to access nutrient dense food.
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Look beyond the headlines and the health rhetoric, know that the shape of your body does not signify your worth as a person. And challenge any person or article telling you different.
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I’ve popped up some snippets on my Stories today so you can see, but if you’re looking to throw a safe, stress-free party for your kids I highly recommend it. I just wish I knew about it before Freya’s birthday back in June 😭 . 
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Big thank you to Jay from @partypeepsbristol for such a brilliant, innovative and interactive party ❤️ (See his skills in action on Stories - it’s something to behold!)
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