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My third trimester saviours: Part II

August 12, 2014 by Molly 2 Comments

Third Trimester

Yesterday I posted about some of the things helping make the third trimester of this pregnancy that much easier. It turns out there are actually quite a few products and activities and the post was getting a bit out of hand, so here’s Part II of my epic third trimester saviour list…

Pamper products

Pregnancy pamper products

I’ve managed to carve out some time for myself every day to slather on the creams and lotions and potions. I don’t have any stretch marks (yet) and, although I certainly can’t put this down to pampering (I think you either get them or you don’t) I don’t think it’s done me any harm.

Rubbing the Mustela stretch mark oil into my bump every morning and night is a chance to take a few moments to remember I’m pregnant and give the bump some love. The Barefoot SOS and Weleda body cream came in a beautiful Project B package I was sent for review. They’ve made it into my weekly pamper ritual too because they’re creamy without being greasy, smell lovely and leave my skin soft.

Moments to put my feet up

Puffy pregnant feet

I’m all about taking five minutes to put my feet up when I can, at the moment. I don’t know if it’s the heat, bad luck or just a baby sitting in a weird position, but I’ve really suffered with puffy ankles and feet during this pregnancy. Putting my feet up helps, which means I’ve often taken to doing my work on my laptop sitting on the sofa rather than at my desk. Hooray for working from home.

Non-alcoholic beer

Pregnancy holiday essentials

Because I’m not a saint and I do miss alcohol, non-alcoholic beer has become a weekly Friday night treat. Just the one bottle is enough to make me feel like I’m not missing out – anything more just bloats me anyway. If I’m feeling really decadent I’ll have a small glass of tonic water with a slice of lemon and some ice, pretending it’s got gin in it. I’m such a rebel.

Decorating

Baby room decor

It’s fair to say the nesting has begun. We’ve bought paint, a cot, a cot bumper and wall decals. I’ve upcycled the rocking chair that will be my nursing chair and my dad’s revamped an old stool into a little side table, that I now need to give some love and make pretty. I love this stage of pregnancy as it makes it all seem very real (and exciting). Yep, I’m definitely in the baby zone.

Netflix

I’m on the Netflix blogger stream team, meaning I get to enjoy Netflix and pretend it’s part of my “job”. It’s SO not a job though. Netflix has been a HUGE luxury throughout this pregnancy, helping to distract me from watching too many episodes of One Born Every Minute, as well as spend time with the (self-proclaimed) Northern Love Machine watching amazing drama series that we both love.

We have such different taste in films it makes movie nights near impossible, so our current idea of a treat is to curl up on the sofa under a blanket and gorge on various TV series. The latest being American biker drama Sons of Anarchy (I’m forever indebted to Liz at Me and My Shadow for the recommendation). We’ve just finished the first series and are totally hooked – to the extent that I found myself Googling “Charlie Hunnam” at midnight last night. Turns out he’s actually a Geordie and was in Queer as Folk and Byker Grove back in the day – who knew?!

So that’s it, my essay on third trimester essentials is complete. I could have also mentioned my maternity pillow (a Dream Genii), Essie nail polish (vital for making my puffy toes look half normal) and Chia seeds (an addition to my morning porridge) – but that would need a third post.

Have you got any products or activities you’d add to my epic list?

Filed Under: MOTHERHOOD, Pregnancy Tagged With: Netflix, Pregnancy, pregnancy products, third trimester

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  1. Grandma from the north says

    August 12, 2014 at 8:02 pm

    You look lovely…everyone needs pampering. !
    keep doing it xx

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If you feel bad about your body you’re less like If you feel bad about your body you’re less likely to do nice things for it, including moving in a way that feels good and eating in a way that feels good. (FYI health is about more than just exercise and nutrition, but let’s get deeper into the exercise thing for a second...)
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Research shows kids who have low body image are less likely to get involved with sports and more likely to skip PE. 
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Want kids to move more? Stop teaching them that one type of body is better than another - because if their body doesn’t look like your version of a healthy / beautiful / successful body not only will they be more likely to feel shame over their body, they’ll be less likely to engage with the very behaviours you want them to do more of (or be more likely to engage with them in an UNhealthy way - compulsive exercise is dangerous).
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💕Try talking about the intrinsic benefits of exercise over the extrinsic ones (ie. how it makes you FEEL instead of how it makes you LOOK).
✨Create opportunities for movement where ALL children feel welcome. 
💕Show children diverse representation so they can see sporting heroes with a range of body types and know that movement is for EVERYbody. 
✨Take a zero tolerance approach to appearance based bullying, body shaming and comments that perpetuate weight stigma (including even the hint that fat = bad). 
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(If you’re a teacher or youth leader interested in knowing more about this topic, a #BodyHappyKids workshop will help - follow the link in my bio 🥰❤️)
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[Image description: A multicoloured slide with an overlaid screenshot of tweet by Molly which reads ‘If your intention is to “get kids healthy” then you need to be aware of how weight bias, weight stigma and poor body image are active barriers to health. The end.]
Sharing this outfit pic with you because it’s a Sharing this outfit pic with you because it’s a crying shame only the piles of laundry got to see it, quite frankly. Finally, a pair of pre-loved jeans bought online that are true to size, consistent with the rest of the brand’s sizing and actually fit! 🎉 
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PS heads up - I’ll be doing a Q&A about body image and kids in my Stories on Friday. The Q sticker is up in my Stories now if you’d like to submit a Q! 💕 #BodyHappyKids
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[Image description: Molly is standing in front of the mirror looking very pleased with the fact her new jeans bought from Depop fit her. She is wearing pink patterned jeans with cherubs on them, a pink check jumper and pink trainers. There are piles of laundry on the bed behind her.]
Another photo of us on a walk, because it’s been Another photo of us on a walk, because it’s been our main form of entertainment this year. Anyone else? 
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I honestly now get excited about putting my boots on and being outdoors, even in the rain. I’m going to start hugging trees next and going on wild camping weekends that involve doing a poo behind a tree and making my own fire. Joke.... maybe. 
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Just another reminder that all movement is valid, exercise doesn’t need to have to be about burning calories or even tracking steps in order for it to be “worth it”. Hope everyone’s had a great weekend ❤️
#BodyHappyMum #JoyfulMovement
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My body is good and excellent and my body only bel My body is good and excellent and my body only belongs to me ✨ (Words by Effie May, age 6 💕) #BodyHappyMum
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“Mummy I wrote a letter to myself,” she said. “Mummy I wrote a letter to myself,” she said. And my heart swelled. Maybe I’m doing an OK job after all 🤞❤️💕 #BodyHappyKids 
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I could leave this caption here but I need to make something clear: if you think it’s great that my daughter - a thin, white, nondisabled, cisgender kid - feels good in her body but you’re not here for the self-love of any kid who doesn’t look like her.... then you’ve missed the point.
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ALL bodies are good bodies, and without this important piece of the puzzle ALL children will be at risk of doubting their body. And what happens when they doubt their body? Well... hating our body doesn’t make us treat it with love, and the same is true of kids. 
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Great, now we’ve cleared that up, can we take a moment to appreciate the incredible phonetic spelling on show here?! 
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Image description: Effie, age 6, stands against a white wardrobe holding up a letter she has written to herself. It is spelled phonetically and reads “My body is good and excellent and my body only belongs to me.”
I used to struggle to buy stuff for myself if I ha I used to struggle to buy stuff for myself if I had any spare cash - not just treats, but basics like pants and tights that fit properly. I’d tell myself I didn’t need it, didn’t deserve it, couldn’t justify the expense. There’s still that little voice (the habit of putting everyone else’s needs first and my own last dies hard it seems) but I’m leaning into exploring why it still sometimes rears its head, instead of always listening to it. 
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I’m trying to buy as much as I can from pre-loved places or small businesses these days, which is why I’m very happy to share with you some of my latest finds: a star dress from Depop (£5), earrings from @kelzojewellery by @ourtransitionallife (£12) and the comfiest tights I’ve ever owned in Raspberry Pie by @snagtights (£6.99) 💕💕💕
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Have you found any great small brands lately? Shout them out in the comments so we can all support in the run up to Christmas. ⬇️⚡️
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