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Vlogged: New Mum Face

January 21, 2015 by Molly 11 Comments

I’m no beauty blogger, but I’m very partial to a bit of pampering. No matter how rushed I am in the morning I always find time to wash my face properly and put on concealer and a bit of blush. It’s like my armour for the day, and it’s armour I really need since becoming a new mum again and surviving on very little sleep.

Beauty products

There are a few products I’ve found really helpful in battling the tired dry skin and under-eye shadows. As well as Liz Earle Hot Cloth Cleanser (LOVE) I’ve been using the toner too, plus the Instant Lifting Face Cream and Revive Eye Contour Cream from TEN which have helped with the dark circles.

I’ve also recently discovered some rather lovely moisturising cream which was actually meant for my baby. Sophie La Girafe have branched out to skincare (who knew?!) and their baby face cream is GORGEOUS. It’s actually my new favourite moisturiser, but don’t tell the baby.

What beauty buys do you treat yourself to? Any recommendations to share?

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Disclosure: Thanks to TEN and Sophie La Giraffe for sending me samples to try. 

Filed Under: Beauty, STYLE Tagged With: beauty, facial products, new mum beauty buys

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Comments

  1. helloitsgemma says

    January 25, 2015 at 8:55 pm

    I watched to the end….
    get you coming over all Cali. Total fan of Liz Earle, the brightening treatment mask is v good. My recommend back to you. It’s a 2 min thing, so would totally work for you at the moment.
    You look very well – so clearly it’s all working.

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    • Molly says

      January 25, 2015 at 9:30 pm

      Ooh thanks for the tip. Am going to invest in some of that next week. Need all the help I can get at the moment!

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  2. Carie says

    January 23, 2015 at 8:26 pm

    Oh I think I need all of that by the bucketload – I definitely still have new baby face, and I think you’re looking amazing!! I’m really tempted to try the Sophie skincare, it sounds lovely, especially as most ordinary products disagree with my skin.

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  3. Kathryn says

    January 22, 2015 at 5:45 pm

    I really feel like I should try the Liz Earle range, I’ve heard such good things. I did notice that Sophie la Giraffe had branched out into skincare and I always think those frenchies know a thing or two about skincare too 😉

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    • Molly says

      January 22, 2015 at 9:48 pm

      It’s really very lovely. Once you’ve tried it it’s difficult to go back!

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  4. Laura says

    January 22, 2015 at 2:24 pm

    Really enjoyed watching your vlog and you look amazing so those products must be working!! Going to keep them on my “must pick up” list post baby

    Laura x

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    • Molly says

      January 22, 2015 at 9:48 pm

      Definitely Laura – you’ll deserve a treat once baby is here! x

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  5. Boney says

    January 22, 2015 at 1:33 pm

    I too have a great love of the Liz Earle cleanser but after a while found it a tad too expensive. Whilst searching for a replacement I had a recommendation for the Superdrug Hot Cloth Cleanser – it’s about half the price usually (£7ish I think) and was on sale recently for about £3! It smells fruitier (is that a word? 🙂 well it is now…) than Liz Earle but as far as I can tell works the same (I’ve been using for about two months). I also love the Boots Youth Maintain Night Cream – it smells delicious and leaves my skin super soft. The day cream rocks too!

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    • Molly says

      January 22, 2015 at 9:48 pm

      Ooh great tip, thank you! I’ll have to try that one out. x

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  6. Slummy single mummy says

    January 21, 2015 at 3:26 pm

    For about twenty years now I’ve used Olay daily fluid with SPF. I feel sooo old having used the same product for that long but if it ain’t broke…

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    • Molly says

      January 22, 2015 at 9:50 pm

      True – I’m a sucker for a new beauty product though, even though I always go back to my old faithfuls.

      Reply

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Hello and welcome! I'm Molly Forbes - podcaster, presenter and blogger with a passion for positivity, confidence and body image chat. Regularly writing and vlogging about empowering female issues from a motherhood angle, I also cover lifestyle and fashion topics for like-minded mums who want to rediscover themselves after having children. Thanks for stopping by! Read More…

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Social media can be a great thing, but it can also be a scary and anxiety-inducing place too (watch The Social Dilemma on Netflix for more on this!). We’re having conversations with children about the dangers of sugar but not even touching on the dangers of social media and the impact it can have on health (because mental health is health too FYI). 
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