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Sometimes it’s easier to get messy

12 Tuesday Feb 2013

Posted by Molly in Play

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messy play, Parenting, sensory box, sensory play, tantrums, toddlers

There’s a point in the afternoon that every parent I know dreads. As 4pm ticks ever closer, my blood pressure starts to rise. I’ve heard some call it the “Witching Hour”, while others call it “Tantrum O’Clock”. Either way, 4pm in our house often signals a one way ticket to Tantrumville. And it’s not pretty.

The thing about 4pm, is that it often coincides with the exact minute that my energy levels have dipped below zero. By this time in the afternoon, all I want to do is crawl under a blanket on the sofa and give in to exhaustion. My toddler’s fractious behaviour, however, would never allow it. So I’ve started trying to ward off 4pm and greet it head on, with a pre-planned activity. Yesterday, it was all about the Sensory Box.

Sensory Box for Toddlers

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Searching for sticks

05 Tuesday Feb 2013

Posted by Molly in Motherhood, Play

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being patient, countryside, entertaining toddlers, learning, outdoors, Parenting, play, treasure

Some days, afternoons stretch before me like an empty abyss. All I can see are monotonous hours needing to be filled, as I struggle for ideas to entertain my two year old. Before Christmas, my work schedule often saw me exhausted, counting down the hours until bedtime. I’m ashamed to admit this.

It’s not been like that recently. Feeling less tired and myself again, I’ve enjoyed the time spent with my feisty little girl. She makes me laugh – proper big belly laughs. Today was one such day. And it was mainly because of a nature trail for toddlers. Or, to be exact, my toddler.

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Cold spaghetti isn’t just fit for the bin

04 Monday Feb 2013

Posted by Molly in Play

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messy play, Parenting, sensory play, toddler fun

Last week we had Spaghetti Bolognaise for tea. As usual, I misjudged the portion sizes and ended up with a load of leftover spaghetti. In my quest to come up with new ways to stop toddler tantrums, I remembered Frog’s nursery mentioning something about a messy play session involving spaghetti. My inner sane voice lost the battle and we ended up doing this:

Spaghetti Messy PlayOur spaghetti messy play session didn’t cost a thing. I used cold spaghetti, mixed it with some blue finger paint and added some blue and white beads, a playmobil swimmer and dolphin, covering the lot liberally with plenty of blue glitter. Continue reading »

We have arrived at the Stage of Doom – potty training

01 Friday Feb 2013

Posted by Molly in Baby and toddler products, Cloth nappies, Toilet training

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Baba and Boo potty training pants, Kiddycharts reward charts, Parenting, potty training, toddlers

Review

My toddler will be three years old in 5 months time. My little baby. Tiny little Frog. She is now a fully walking, talking, feisty singing little girl, with bags of personality and a hatred of nappies. Or rather, a hatred of nappies that need to be changed. So it appears that, without even planning to, we have arrived at that dreaded stage – potty training.

The process so far has involved talking about using the toilet, sitting on the toilet, discarding nappies in favour of pants for a full day, going back to nappies and, now, occasionally sitting on the toilet with constant gentle encouragement. (I’m still talking about my toddler here.) Nothing has actually been “produced” on the toilet yet, so to speak.  Continue reading »

How to occupy a toddler while cooking

28 Monday Jan 2013

Posted by Molly in Motherhood, Play

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imagination, Parenting, play dough, role play, toddler development, toddler play

You know that time of day where your child turns into a demon, your phone starts ringing and the uncooked supper screams at you from the fridge? For me, that hellish point in the day always arrives at around 4pm. *BANG* – it hits us like a train.

One of the hardest things I find at this time is multi-tasking; answering the phone, while juggling a tantrumming toddler on one hip and cutting up an onion with one hand. Anyone with children will tell you – it’s a hard job to occupy a toddler while cooking. Especially if that cooking involves more than just bunging something in the oven.

I experienced a revelation today though. 4pm arrived and there was no sign of the metamorphosis from angel to demon in my beautiful child. She remained happy, calm and content. She occupied herself and didn’t once asked to be lifted up, to “help”, to have “CHOC CHOC!” or for ketchup to be smothered over her uncooked supper. Continue reading »

Parenting – it’s not always crayons and kisses

26 Saturday Jan 2013

Posted by Molly in Behaviour, Motherhood, Relationships

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exhaustion, Parenting, tantrums, tiredness

The end of a long day

The end of a long day

Before I was a mum, I had an idea that MY experience of parenting would be a rosy one. I naively assumed that others who had difficult days were probably “doing it wrong” and that there was ALWAYS a solution to a problem – and I would instantly know that solution.

I wish I could go back in time and have a word with myself. What an idiot.

I’ve been lucky enough to be graced with a beautiful, independent, hilarious, clever, quick witted child. Who is also somewhat of a diva. I say “somewhat”. I mean “very much”. Continue reading »

What crafting with a toddler is REALLY like

20 Sunday Jan 2013

Posted by Molly in Play

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craft, family, Parenting, play, toddlers

This is the tree I crafted with my toddler today:

Toilet roll treeNow, I COULD tell you it was a joyous experience. Mother and child bonding over toilet rolls and brown parcel paper, deep in a shared vision of paint and garden design for the doll’s house.

Except it wasn’t.

If I show you these pictures of intense concentration on the face of my two year old, you may be deceived into thinking crafting is a peaceful activity in our house. You may even be conned into thinking time with paint passes tantrum free. Continue reading »

Snow – are you a lover or hater?

19 Saturday Jan 2013

Posted by Molly in Family, Work

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family, fun, Parenting, Snow, toddlers

Boots in the snow

When I saw the weather forecasts predicting SNOWMAGEDDON earlier this week I sighed. You see, where snow is concerned I am both a lover and a hater.

The child in me loves the snow. It brings back memories of snow days and hot chocolate, building snowmen and sledging in the park. Being the fully fledged southerner that I am, snow was rare in my native Bristol. To wake to even a light sprinkle of the white stuff would mean HUGE excitement. Continue reading »

Sassitude

16 Wednesday Jan 2013

Posted by Molly in Behaviour, Motherhood, Speech

≈ 16 Comments

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attitude, behaviour, Parenting, toddlers

Sassitude

My daughter has always had attitude. At seven hours old, she let the world know she’d arrived by waking all the other sleeping babies on the hospital ward with loud shouts. The nurses joked she’d be an opera singer. I winced.

Her spirit was apparant when she refused to take a bottle of expressed milk. Ever. Medicine on a spoon? No way. In fact, if she didn’t want to do it or she wasn’t 100% in control of it, she was not a fan. Not a fan at all.

I’ve since learned that the best way to persuade my two and a half year old to do something not involving chocolate or paint is to make her think it was her idea. This helps in certain situations, but not in ones involving a new personality trait she’s been displaying recently. Continue reading »

My toddler, the Facebook addict

07 Monday Jan 2013

Posted by Molly in Behaviour, Social media

≈ 7 Comments

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internet, Parenting, Social Media, toddlers

ImageI have to admit to something now which may cause raised eyebrows and a few grunts of judgment. I’m sorry. I tried to stop it, but it would appear it is too late. My toddler is addicted to Facebook.

There, I said it.

She accidentally discovered Facebook on my phone the other day, closing down Twitter due to the lack of pictures. I think she was searching for YouTube but can’t be sure. At the tender age of two and a half she is a social media queen. I hate it. Continue reading »

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