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Tag Archives: hypermobility

Will she do ballet?

08 Wednesday Aug 2012

Posted by Molly in Play, Walking

≈ 26 Comments

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activities, ballet, clubs, dance, hypermobility, Parenting, toddlers, walking

When I was the age my toddler is now, my mum signed me up to ballet lessons. I loved them.

Ballet was a big part of our Saturday morning routine throughout my childhood. The walk along the leafy Bristol streets, hand in hand with my mum, chattering away. The smell of new ballet shoes and the excitement of visiting the dance shop with all its multi-coloured tutus. Sitting in a freezing church hall practising “good toes, naughty toes” before getting onto the fun stuff – the jumps and the routines.

Parenthood has a habit of bringing all the best bits of our own early years into sharp focus. I can still hear the rip as my friend shredded my pink tutu, made lovingly by my mum, during one of the many shows we put on for the adults (who were probably incredibly bored at the time but did a great job of hiding it). I can still feel the scratchy net, deliciously puffy and rigid against my skin, as I proudly pointed my toes and imagined myself the lead role in Swan Lake. Continue reading »

An open letter to my daughter, on her birthday

27 Wednesday Jun 2012

Posted by Molly in Family, Motherhood

≈ 36 Comments

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.motherhood, birthdays, cake, chocolate, hypermobility, love

Dear Frog,

My beautiful girl.

How on earth did you get so big? You’re all long and lanky now, just like your dad. Your gorgeous skinny legs – although far too flexible – remind me of a dangly scarecrow. Not much different to the day you were born, really.

This day two years ago, we looked at you as you slept in your clear plastic bed, discussing your frog-like feet and scarecrow limbs. Love hit us like a bullet. Continue reading »

Oprah gives it to me straight

23 Saturday Jun 2012

Posted by Molly in Motherhood, Work

≈ 10 Comments

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.motherhood, freelance writing, Heart, hypermobility, journalism, radio, work, working mother

Photo Credit: Alan Light

My inner Oprah Winfrey needs to be channelled. She’s sitting on the sofa today, demanding I take notice of her life coaching advice.

I can’t ignore her any longer.

She tells me to stop for a minute. Just a minute. And take a moment to recall the events of the past year. She tells me that, rather than berating myself for not achieveing the mountain of tasks on my to-do list this week, I should take stock of what I have achieved.

She tells me to look at the bigger picture.

Apparently, I need to remember where I was this time last year. I need to remember that I was yet to get married. I was in a haze of last-minute planning for said wedding. I was attempting the beginnings of a blog, a freelance career. Continue reading »

Chasing freedom

19 Tuesday Jun 2012

Posted by Molly in Walking

≈ 27 Comments

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hypermobility, late walking, Parenting, toddlers, walking

I chased my daughter around a shop this afternoon. I watched as she let go of my hand and made a dash for the tills, running behind the counter, before playing peepo in an empty changing room.

It was beautiful.

A week tomorrow my baby girl turns two years old. And it is only now that I am beginning to see her as the toddler she has been for the past six months. The speaking, singing, mischievous toddler. The non-toddling toddler who is no longer of the non-toddling variety. Continue reading »

What not to do in a crisis

08 Friday Jun 2012

Posted by Molly in Family

≈ 30 Comments

Tags

A&E, accident, bump, crisis, fall over, hospital, hypermobility, toddler

It happened in slow motion.

My wonky toddling almost-2 year old scrambled down from the sofa to walk three steps to the table. In her hands she carried a pot with cubes of cheese. So intent on this cheese was she, that she failed to pay proper attention to her steps.

This is particularly important when you’re a child of the hypermobile variety and steps are still an issue.

Everything slowed down, as she tripped and her head came crashing down, down, down…. to land smack on the corner of the table. Continue reading »

Not giving up

20 Sunday May 2012

Posted by Molly in Walking

≈ 30 Comments

Tags

hypermobility, late walker, Parenting, toddler, walking

Usually on a Sunday I like to post a photo with no words, taking part in the Silent Sunday tradition.

But not this week.

Because yesterday I filmed a little video. And after all the posts I’ve written about my non-toddling toddler’s struggle with walking and hypermobility, the frustrations and questioning looks, the worry and negativity… I wanted to put something positive here.

This is what determination looks like, in the form of an almost 23 month old little girl with wonky feet and uber flexible limbs. This is what not giving up looks like. Continue reading »

Message in a bottle (or Facebook)

07 Saturday Apr 2012

Posted by Molly in Motherhood, Social media

≈ 2 Comments

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.motherhood, community, flexible joints, hypermobility, late walking, physical development, toddler

As well as being a co-presenter for a breakfast radio show, I also earn my crust as a writer. Part of this job involves writing features, part of it involves writing commercial copy and part of it involves blogging.

I rarely put any of my work-related writing here because this is my personal space. But I wanted to share my most recent post for one of my clients, because it’s something that I could easily have written right here.

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It’s 10 o’clock at night and I’ve had a difficult day. I’m tired and emotional and a bit overwhelmed.

We’ve been at the hospital, you see. My daughter, now approaching 22 months old, is still not walking. The doctors think there may be a problem with her hips. Continue reading »

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