Summer is here, and the kids are home. That often means their screens are always on. As a parent, you worry about their eyes, their sleep, and their habits. But you also have work and can’t watch them every minute. The goal isn’t to take away their screens completely. It’s about finding a happy balance between digital fun and real-world adventure.
Let’s turn the screen time battle into a win-win. By working together as a family, we can create a summer that’s both fun and healthy. Here are five simple strategies to help your kids look up and enjoy the world around them.
1. How Much Screen Time Is Okay?
First, let’s set some clear and simple goals. Experts offer helpful guidelines based on age.
|
Age Group |
Recommended Maximum Daily Entertainment Screen Time |
Screen Off Before Bed |
|
5–11 years |
1–2 hours, should not affect exercise, sleep, or socializing |
At least 1 hour |
|
12–18 years |
No strict limit; balance with studies, exercise, and sleep; suggest a “data budget” |
At least 1 hour |
For kids 5–11: Aim for 1-2 hours of fun screen time a day. This includes games, social media, and videos.
For teens 12–18: Work together to create a “screen budget.” For example, you might agree on 2 hours of entertainment time on summer days.
2. Talk It Out: Create a Family Plan
Rules work best when everyone agrees on them. Instead of just setting limits, talk about them as a family. The UK’s Royal College of Paediatrics and Child Health (RCPCH) suggests this approach.
To see if your family’s screen habits are healthy, ask these four simple questions together:
- Do we feel in control of our screen time?
- Do we have enough time for play, friends, and other activities?
- Are we all getting enough sleep?
- Do we eat healthy meals without screen distractions?
If you can answer “yes” to these, you’re on the right track!
3. Build Healthy Daily Habits
With your family plan in place, here’s how to make it part of your daily routine.
Planning and Alternatives
Create a family schedule: Put important things first, like exercise, reading, and chores.
Screen time can be a reward for later: Use an “activity before screen” rule. For example, kids need to play outside for 30 minutes before they can use their devices.
Environment and Tools
Set up “no-device zones”: Keep dining rooms and bedrooms screen-free. This is especially important an hour before bed.
Have a dedicated tech spot: Use the living room or study for games and videos. This keeps screens out of bedrooms.
Digital Assistance
Use helpful tools like AirDroid Parental Control. It has a feature where kids can activate a “Focus Mode” themselves. This locks distracting apps so they can concentrate on learning. Only a parent can unlock it, which helps them build self-control.
You can also set daily time limits remotely. Easily adjust rules and allow access to certain apps based on how their day is going.
Offer Fun Things to Do Offline
The best way to reduce screen time is to offer fun alternatives. Kids are less likely to miss their screens when they are busy and happy.
Get Moving: Aim for 60 minutes of activity each day. This could be soccer, bike rides, or swimming. Look for local summer programs.
Read and Create: Join your local library’s “Summer Reading Challenge.” Kids can earn cool rewards. Or, start a “vacation research project” where they document bugs, plants, or stars.
Socialize Offline: Plan a bike ride with friends. Have a family board game night. Host a “device-free tea party” in the backyard.
Protect Sleep with a Solid Routine
Finally, a good summer starts and ends with a good night’s sleep. Screens can make it harder for kids to rest well.
Keep a consistent schedule. Try to stick to regular bedtimes and wake-up times, even in the summer.
No screens at night. Make sure all screens are off at least one hour before bed. The blue light from screens can disrupt sleep. If your child seems tired or can’t focus, be firm with this rule.
A Balanced Summer is a Happy Summer
Managing screen time doesn’t have to be a constant fight. It’s about teamwork, balance, and creating good habits together. By talking as a family and finding fun offline activities, you can help your kids have a wonderful break. They can enjoy their digital world and the real world, too.